For the people who take up the most space in your head

Different people. Different goals. One assistant that knows the difference.

Upload your chats with the people on your mind. For each one, tell Marlow what you want — distance, repair, to be heard, or something else entirely. Marlow drafts every reply with that goal in mind. Drafts only. You always send.

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Draft · 9:42 pmCo-parent · Distance
“So I guess you’re just not going to respond about Saturday. Typical. The kids notice you know.”
Received 9:38 pm
↓ Marlow drafts ↓
Saturday pickup at 4pm as agreed. I’ll confirm Friday morning.
19 words · neutral tone · no engagement with second sentenceCopy

Difficult conversations. The ones you keep going round in your head.

Marlow is built around your recurring difficult relationships — and what you actually want from each of them.

A co-parent who keeps moving the goalposts. A grown-up child you’re trying to find your way back to. A parent who turns every text into a crisis. A boss whose Slack messages take your weekend. A sibling you fell out with and don’t know how to reach. An ex who can’t quite let it land.

Each one gets its own chat history, its own pattern — and its own goal. End it. Hold a line. Rebuild it. Be heard. Stay warm. You set the mode, Marlow drafts to it.

How it works.

01 ——

Upload the chat.

Export the conversation from WhatsApp, iMessage, email, or Slack. Drop it in. Marlow reads the full history — the pattern, the dynamic, what's already been said.

02 ——

Set the goal.

For each person, choose the mode. End contact. Hold a line. Be heard. Repair. Stay warm. You can change it any time. Marlow drafts every reply to that goal.

03 ——

Paste what arrived.

When the next message lands, paste it in. Marlow drafts a reply shaped by the full history and the goal you've chosen for this person.

04 ——

You decide what to send.

Edit, regenerate, or send as-is. Nothing leaves Marlow automatically. You're the one replying. Marlow just helps you stop spending the evening on it.

How Marlow drafts.

Every reply is shaped by the goal you’ve set for that person. The rules change with the mode.

For distance and boundaries.

Brief. Even-toned. Answers only what was asked. The flatter the reply, the less there is to react to.

For repair and reconnection.

Warm but specific. Names the rupture. Owns what's yours. Leaves a door open without grovelling.

For being heard.

Steady. Doesn't argue, doesn't apologise, doesn't escalate. Holds the ask until it lands.

Across every mode.

Nothing sarcastic. Nothing weaponisable. Documented and timestamped, so you have a record if you ever need one. And always — drafts only. You send.